What NOT to do When Writing Your Will - Lawyer in Monmouth County Weighs In

A will is an essential part of your overall estate plan. It sets out directives to follow after your death and designates your wishes for your assets, possessions, and other important aspects of your life. With so many Hollywood depictions of wills scribbled on napkins, it is no wonder that most folks think they can handle creating a will themselves. But a will requires much more detail, thought, and research than depicted in movies and TV shows. When individuals attempt to make a will on their own, they often make mistakes that cause major issues down the road. As an experienced estate planning lawyer in Monmouth County, here are some of the more common mistakes we see:
1. Ignoring Legal Requirements
New Jersey has legal requirements that outline what makes a will legitimate. If you do not follow the estate planning laws for your will, it could be invalid. Your will needs to be in writing, signed by you, and witnessed by at least two individuals who are not beneficiaries of your estate. Your will also must be notarized correctly to meet NJ's standards. The requirements for each state differ, so a will that is recognized in one state may not meet NJ requirements or vice versa.
2. Ambiguous Instructions
Vague directives and generalized terms may seem straightforward enough to you, but the more wiggle room there is for interpretation, the more you can leave yourself open to legal issues. Leaving your assets to your "children" may seem clear, but it becomes murkier if you have estranged children, adopted children, step-children, or children who live in your home to whom you are not legally a guardian. You need to be clear and specific when writing your will to avoid legal battles among your heirs. An attorney can help you minimize the risk of disputes and misinterpretations.
3. Poor Choice of Executor
When you list an executor in your will, you give someone in your life a lot of control and responsibility over your assets and wishes. The executor will be responsible for carrying out the terms of your will, distributing assets, settling debts, and even filing your taxes for the last time. It is critical that you name an executor who is capable and trustworthy with strong organizational skills. An unfit executor can mismanage the settlement of your estate, causing delays and potentially even legal disputes. You should also consider the age and mental or physical health of the executor you choose. While naming a spouse as the executor of your will in your 40s may be acceptable, your spouse is less likely to have the ability to serve as your executor in their 80s. A NJ estate planning attorney can help you determine the best executor for your will.
4. Disregarding Guardian Distinctions
Guardian designations for underaged children are frequently overlooked when individuals draft their own will. While the guardianship of your children may seem obvious to you, it is crucial that you spell these details out in your will. If you are married to the other biological parent of your children, your spouse will become the sole guardian of your children. If, however, you are divorced, re-married, or your spouse is also deceased, this complicates things. You’ll need to specifically name the person or persons you want to raise your children if you are no longer alive. It is also important to have a conversation with this person ahead of time so they understand your wishes.
5. Failure to Update Your Will
The will you created when you were 35 and freshly married will likely not cover all of your assets, wishes, and heir designations when you are 85. Your will should evolve and change as your life happens. Marriage, divorce, the birth or adoption of children, death, major changes in financial situation—all of these events can deeply impact the validity of your will. As these events happen, you must update your will to reflect these changes and ensure your will reflects your current desires.
6. No Tax Considerations
New Jersey estate tax can significantly impact the distribution of your assets. While anyone can download a will template online and fill in the blanks, most average people do not know the ins and outs of NJ inheritance tax laws. Neglecting to include these laws in your planning can reduce the inheritance of your beneficiaries. Your will is only one part of an estate plan. When you use your will in partnership with other legal protections, you can implement an estate plan strategy that maximizes beneficiary inheritance and minimizes tax burdens.
Veitengruber Law has over a decade of experience working with individuals to create an estate plan that will ease your mind and solidify your legacy. We can help you avoid these major mistakes and maximize your legal protections.
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